生命之玄

日常閒話：如何根據自己的宿命規劃自己的人生（廣東話）

1. 人生规划篇： 命里有时终需有

Your personality determines your destiny
The different Tai Chi points or Bazi at which people are born determine the different intellectual aspects of people's contact with the world, thus affecting the differences in personal reactions. These reactions can be called personality, and it is congruent with the Western astrology.
Different personality represents different ways of thinking and ways of dealing with things. It determines how a person operates his life and thus affects his own destiny!

性格決定命運
出生的太極點不同主宰著人在接觸這個世界的知性面不同，從而影響了個人反應上的不同，這種反應我們可以稱為性格，也和西方占星，星相，星座學說一致。
不同的性格表現代表不同形式的思考方式和事情處理的模式。性格決定一個人的生活運作方式從而影響到命運！

People can have their own choices in life
Regardless of whether your Bazi structure is high or low, let me tell you a secret: small things or private matters are often your own choices, while major or public matters are God’s, that is, shared karma.
Fortune telling itself is fatalistic, but real life is not. This is because your choices over small and personal matters won't affect the overall situation. However, when you make a significant decision, you must comprehensively consider all the factors you can control. This is the free will under your fate.

人有自己的自我選擇意識
不論個人格局高或低，告訴大家一個秘密，往往小事或個人私事由人由自己，大事或公事則由天，亦即共業。
算命本身是宿命，但真正的真實人生可並非一定是宿命。因為小事私事你可以有絕對的選擇權，而且不太會影響大局。但當有重大的決定時，你必然會把目前你可以掌握到的一切因素作一個綜合考慮，這就是自由意志之下的宿命。

日常閒話：姻緣運旺盛必有桃花星乎？

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People with low awareness have lower structures
Many stubborn, selfish people have low Bazi structures. They want to convince people that their views are correct, they only care about their personal interests. Their material life may not be bad, but they just want to get rich without working hard. . Do you think this is possible? People like this should stop wasting their lives and wake up!

命中格局低卻不自知
又有一些人，格局偏低又不醒目、頑固非常、深信自己的觀點正確、而且自私自利，只講求個人利益，他們的物質生活未必一定差，但每天只想不用出力就可發達，不勞而獲。你想想這有可能嗎? 這類人不要再浪費生命了，醒來吧!

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It’s all ME in life
There are some people with a medium structure and that they are in the middle-level position and are slightly successful in life, they always take "I" as the main focus in everything. As everyone knows, different times and different environments can produce elements for successes, there may be reasons for failures too!
These people are too arrogant. They should be more selfless to enjoy greater success.