Marriage Affairs

Deep thought!

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How do you correct a wasteful spouse without being offensive?

Peace is maintained in marriage with conscious efforts.
The peace efforts are joint actions of the couple.
It takes two to keep the peace

"I know he likes women a lot, but, he will change when we get married. He knows I can't share him with others..."
= 😂 sorry in advance
If there is no genuine change before marriage, hardly will there be a change after.

And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment; That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ. Philippians 1:9-10

= Let your love for one another abound and increase with more knowledge of yourselves and your sense of judgement in your relationship.
Pay more attention to the exceptional qualities of your spouse, be honest in your relationship dealings and see less of your spouse offenses till Christ come again or death do you part.

Be Prepared for Marriage

It is not enough to desire to be married,
go further to prepare yourself for marriage.

Marriage is far beyond just getting married because you are old enough to be married.
It is beyond getting married to play and enjoy romance and feelings of love.

Ensure you are ready to handle the demands and challenges that comes with marriage.

The following and more will prepare you;
Have the right motive for marriage
Adopt healthy and godly principles and lifestyle
Look good and decent always
Be God fearing in character
Understand what true love entails
Make yourself an asset instead of liability
Be ready to give your spouse the best of you
Being ready to accept your spouse wholeheartedly even in difficult times
Make injunctions of God's word and godly marriage principles your standard of decisions and actions
Be ready to adjust your mindset to become compatible with your spouse
Be ready to accommodate your spouse offenses with the spirit of forgiveness
And a lot more things that will make your spouse adore you

Marriage is a serious covenant and commitment, don't go into it casually or unprepared so you don't run out as causality

For avoidance of doubt, 'sexual in*******se' outside marriage is still a sin.
S*x is meant only for the married and within your marriage.

To the unmarried in the house.
Don't marry these kind of person.
A proud person
A stingy person
A violent person
A hot tempered person
A jealous person
A fraudster
A deceitful person
An ungodly person

Good to complain to your spouse, but repeated and aggressive complaints turns you to a critical and nagging person

People with 'failed character' don't make happy husband/wife.