Life After 18

Think you — or your teen — are ready for life after 18? Let's find out. 😄 The 4-H "Life After 18" club is back with twice-monthly meetings covering the real-life stuff school skips. Starting Tuesday, June 16, 3–4 pm. Ages 14–18 welcome. 📍 UNR Extension | 1651 E. Calvada Blvd., Pahrump, NV 89048 Questions: PM me.

Can a landlord legally keep your entire security deposit for any reason? 🏠
Drop your answer below 👇

📋 Answer: No — and knowing this could save you hundreds of dollars.
Security deposits are protected by law. A landlord can only withhold them for specific documented reasons — such as unpaid rent or verified damages. They must provide written documentation. If they can't, you have legal recourse.

Most young adults don't know this — and landlords count on that.

📚 Learn more in the Major Milestones Series — Housing & Moving Out at lifeafter18.com — because your rights as a tenant are only useful if you know them.

Informed decisions. Better results. 🔗 lifeafter18.com

Second workbook done and available on Amazon today! Yay!!
(Only eight more to go🙃)

I just got my first workout completed and published to Amazon! Yay! Looks like I need to start scheduling more face-to-face classes!
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Ok, now the closet introvert in me is getting a little nervous. 🥹🥹🥹

I loved this guy! He was sooo good with the critters🙏❤️

The moral education that millions of American children are sometimes said to have received from Mr. Green Jeans was not really a curriculum. He did not deliver lessons about kindness. He did not lecture children about being gentle with animals. He did not tell them, in the language of moral instruction, to be patient or curious or quiet. What he did, five mornings a week for twenty-nine years, was move at the speed at which a decent human being actually moves through the world. The children watched. They absorbed the pace, which turned out to be the actual lesson, which turned out to be something nobody was going to teach them anywhere else.

The man inside the overalls was named Hugh Brannum, and almost nobody knew it. He was born in Illinois in 1910, took a law degree because his parents thought he should, and then walked away from it and toward a bass guitar. Through the 1930s and 1940s he traveled the country with Fred Waring and His Pennsylvanians, one of the biggest bands of the era, where he was as much a comic storyteller between songs as a musician. He worked in radio. He learned, in those years, how a voice carries across air to a child sitting in a kitchen somewhere, and what it takes to keep that child listening.

In 1955, CBS launched Captain Kangaroo, and Bob Keeshan, the man under the bowl cut and the jacket with the deep pockets, needed someone to be the show's resident farmer. He needed someone who could bring a rabbit to set and not startle it. Hugh Brannum, the bass player with the law degree, put on a pair of green denim overalls and stepped into the Treasure House. He would not step out of those overalls in any public way for nearly three decades.

The decision Keeshan and Brannum had made together about the show was, in its time, almost defiantly out of step with the rest of children's television. Most kids' programming in the 1950s and 1960s was loud, fast, full of cartoon violence and the kind of frantic energy producers believed children needed in order to stay tuned. Captain Kangaroo went in the other direction. The episodes moved slowly. There was time, after a thing was shown, for the thing to be looked at. Mr. Green Jeans would bring an animal in, and instead of doing a routine with it, he would explain what it ate and how it slept and how to hold it without scaring it, and then he would hold it, and they would just be there together, the man and the animal, in front of a camera, for as long as it took. Nothing about it was visibly trying to teach anything. That was the whole point.

This is the part the obituaries and the affectionate retrospectives have always missed slightly. What Mr. Green Jeans taught was not content. He taught a pace. The reason children absorbed the lesson about being kind to animals was not that he told them to be kind to animals; it was that they spent thousands of hours watching what kindness actually looks like when it is unhurried. A child being told to be gentle learns a word. A child watching, every morning, a calm man move slowly with a small animal in his hands, for as long as it takes, learns the speed at which gentleness moves. The first is information. The second is something closer to a habit. The whole show was built on understanding the difference.

Brannum also seemed to understand the difference between the character he was playing and the celebrity he might have made out of it. He had, before the green jeans, been a real performer, with real skills, who could have done press tours and written memoirs and turned the role into a brand. He did none of that. He let Mr. Green Jeans be the famous one. The musician and the lawyer and the man with the family stayed quietly behind, doing the work that gave the character his actual depth — playing the music, writing the songs, sometimes voicing the other characters on the show — but never stepping forward to be applauded for it. Adults who recognized him on the street did so only when he was in costume. Out of overalls he was nobody special. He seemed, by all accounts, fine with that.

The show ran on CBS for twenty-nine years, longer than most marriages. Then it moved to PBS for a while longer. By the early eighties Brannum's health was failing and he stepped away from the role. He died in April of 1987, at seventy-seven. The New York Times obituary identified him as the man who had played Mr. Green Jeans, which was the only way most of the country had ever known him. People who had grown up watching, who had since become parents, paused over the morning paper that day and realized, possibly for the first time, that he had been someone with a name.

What he leaves behind, if you want to put it in the language of impact, is several generations of Americans who learned, without ever being told they were learning, what it feels like to spend attention slowly on something living. He did not give them a lesson. He gave them the speed at which a person becomes the kind of person who is kind, which is something almost no one was teaching them anywhere else, and which most of them probably needed more than they needed any of the things being taught faster on the other channels.

Pahrump friends — I'll be at the Pahrump Community Business Fair on Saturday, June 13th from 12–4 PM at Nye Communities Coalition, 1020 Wilson Rd.

If you've ever wondered what Life After 18 is all about, this is your chance to come meet me in person, ask questions, and see exactly what I teach.

I'll share information on all 10 of my life skills modules — everything from understanding credit and signing leases to buying a car and filing taxes.
Stop by the booth, say hello, and take home something useful. I'll have a few goodies to share with folks who come by. 😊

Hope to see some familiar faces — and meet some new ones! 📍 1020 Wilson Rd, Pahrump | ⏰ June 13, 12–4 PM 🌐 LifeAfter18.com

Think you — or your teen — are ready for life after 18? Let's find out. 😄

The 4-H "Life After 18" club is back with twice-monthly meetings covering the real-life stuff many schools skip. Starting Tuesday, June 16, 3–4 pm.

Ages 14–18 welcome.

UNR Extension | 1651 E. Calvada Blvd., Pahrump, NV 89048

Questions: PM me.

Did your mom ever say, “If all your friends jumped off a bridge, would you jump too,” in response to your whining, “but, Mom, all my friends are allowed to do it?”

Same idea…