08/14/2026
Google, AI Chat Bots, or even your favorite lactation influencer have a few things in common with a real live Lactation Consultant. They also have very important differences. Here’s some things they can’t do for you!
Respond to the nuances of your baby’s latch in real time, how adjustments help or make things worse. There are so many strategies for a baby who is struggling to feed effectively. Being able to see your baby’s response in real time helps me know the next best option to try OR not try.
Respond in real time to your body language as you interact with your baby or support people. It might include a change in your facial expression, holding tension in one shoulder more than the other or taking into account your home environment options.
Ask the questions that could prevent going down the wrong rabbit hole of what you think might be the cause of your concern.
Avoid giving outdated or incorrect information along with good suggestions. There is such a mixture of good, old but good or old and out of date; new helpful or newer awful advice. Knowing which is which requires discernment.
Discern when an influencer’s advice might not work for you and your situation. Even if they are an IBCLC Lactation Consultant. Each mom is unique and each baby is unique - put those together and it doesn’t always mean a particular pumping schedule or strategy will work for you.
Help you grow in confidence when your normal doesn’t fit the suggested norm. It might be yours or the baby's health, your family situation or your preferences. All these influence your goals and capacity.
Give you a hug if you want one. You make the call - if you want a hug I’m always happy to respond. Sometimes it’s the one thing you really need to keep going.
A recent research study in Turkey found that while ChatGPT can offer reassurance and confidence for everyday infant care, parents agreed it should serve only as a complementary resource rather than a replacement for individualized professional healthcare, especially in serious or complex situations. (Experiences of Primiparous Mothers Using ChatGPTfor Breastfeeding and Infant Care) https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/42517659