ministry of Education Kabwe

WHEN A MAN GETS FED UP

When a man has tolerated everything
the disrespect, the silence, the constant battles
until he can’t take it anymore, he doesn’t argue.
He walks away.
Not because he’s weak.
Not because he didn’t try.
But because peace has become more valuable than everything he built over the years.
A man will endure a lot. He will sacrifice, invest, and hold on for the sake of family.
But the day he finally leaves, understand this:
he has already checked out emotionally long before he packed his bags.
Men don’t leave easily.
They leave when staying costs them their sanity.
Peace is not a luxury to a man.
It is survival.
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I Don’t See Anything Wrong With Married People Keeping Opposite-S3x Besties

That’s how the argument usually starts.

Now let me disagree strongly as a lawyer who has seen how these things end.

Marriage is not destroyed only by s3x
Many marriages collapse long before the bedroom, right inside phones, chats, and “innocent” friendships.

The law does not ask, “Did you sleep with them?” first.
It asks, “What kind of intimacy did you build outside the marriage?”

An opposite-sex bestie often means:

🥢 Daily emotional access
🥢 Private conversations
🥢 Sharing marital frustrations
🥢 Late-night calls
🥢 Loyalty that competes with your spouse
That is not harmless. That is emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy is the foundation of every affair even the ones that swear they never became physical.

Here is the shocker many people don’t want to hear. You don’t need to touch someone to betray your marriage.

When your spouse is no longer the first person you confide in, when another person knows your fears, your anger, your secrets, your weaknesses, your marriage is already leaking.

The law recognises this.

In marital disputes, courts look at conduct.
Patterns. Boundaries crossed. Emotional dependence shifted.

“I didn’t sleep with her” is not always a defence.

Another uncomfortable truth is most affairs don’t start with intention. They start with friendship without boundaries.

You don’t wake up planning to cheat.
You drift there slowly through comfort, validation, and availability.

And married people who insist on opposite-sex besties often say:
“My spouse is insecure.”
“You don’t understand our friendship.”

But boundaries are not insecurity.
They are protection.

Marriage is not a prison, yes. But it is also not an open emotional market.

You can have colleagues.
You can have acquaintances.
You can have friends.

But a bestie the person who replaces your spouse emotionally is where the line is crossed.

As a lawyer, I’ve seen marriages where no one cheated sexua

The rats followed a hided container, destroyed it with their teeth to eat the contentsr without them knowing that it was rat poison. they all died. many are times people strugle to find what will kill them without knowing. Be wise

I think the hardest part of life is that you have to keep going, no matter how you feel. You have to go through situations you aren't comfortable with because life doesn't wait for you to be ready.

Examinations Council of Zambia Executive Director - Dr Michael Chilala this morning briefed members of the Media on new provisions of the Candidate Registration for 2026 Examinations.

Highlights of the briefing included the following:

Registration of candidates will require their images (portrait pictures) to be taken and these will appear on the examination registers and eventually on the certificates. This is a security aspect which has been added to the registration process to curb incidents of impersonation especially for General Certificate of Education (GCE) candidates. Including the candidate’s image is one way of fighting examination malpractices.

Candidates for the Primary School Leaving Examination will need to provide a birth certificate or birth record when registering (However, this is not compulsory for now).

Parents’ details will also be captured on the Online Candidate Registration System (OCRS) to give them an opportunity to verify the details of candidates before they are confirmed by the ECZ. This is in a bid to reduce requests for name amendments. In previous years, the ECZ has been receiving numerous reports with claims that candidates were registered for the wrong subjects or that their names were misspelt.

“Contrary to the situation were the ECZ and the Schools were the only ones responsible for these amendments to take place, we have now taken it to the family to verify the details. It is upon that verification that Candidate Registration will be confirmed,” Dr Chilala said.

By Public Relations Unit
EXAMINATIONS COUNCIL OF ZAMBIA

*Today's advice;*

*don't beg for a seat where you weren't welcomed. don't chase those who choose to ignore or exclude you. don't go to the ones who hurt you and expect healing. Don't burn yourself out just to keep someone else comfortable. build your own table. Your own circle. One filled with people who truly see you, respect you, and love you for who you are. learn where your energy belongs and where it doesn't. And no matter what, never forget your worth.

We Made Teachers Bêggars… and now we’re Paying the Price.

They once stood tall with chalk in hand—now they bend low with bowls, begging to survive.

We strïpped them of dignity.

We mõcked their tãttered clothes.

We turned a noble profession into a national shãme.

At every PTA meeting, we ãrgued about paying them well.

We expected them to teach with passion on an êmpty stomach.

Now, most of the best minds avoid the classroom.

They choose tech, trade, and even TikTok—but not teaching.

Our children sit before those who never wanted to be there.

Some teachers now double as Okada riders.

Some sell second-hand clothes during and after school hours.

Some can't afford their own children's school fees.

We see them trekking long distances.
We pretend not to notice.

The same teachers who shaped our paths now sleep hüngry.

But we still demand miracles in our education system.

Let’s not pretend—we did this.

By nêglecting them, we built a generation that lãüghs at books.

By underpaying them, we raised youths who can’t spell “rêspect.”

By humiliating them, we kïllêd the future of our nations.

Until we restore the honour of teachers, the classroom will remain a grãvêyard of dreams.

It's time to rise.
If you're a parent, speak up.
If you're in power, act.
If you're a teacher, don’t lose hope.

Because without teachers, there is no tomorrow.

Men are suffering let the truth be told.

When the devil wants to destroy a generation he begans by killing men.

Many can't comprehend this truth.they will fight it and call me names.
But aman has become a sacrificial lamb in the society.

When pharoah wanted to reduce the lsraelites he told the midwives to kill all the boychildren but spare the girls.Exodus 15:1-22
Killing the seed (male )and spare the woman.

This continues to date men die like dogs the burden on their shoulders is very heavy.

nobody cares about them.criticisms left right.
The environment isn't conducive for the boy child

Men must be considered this time.

The girl child has been empowered so much to the extent of bracking about it. she speaks proudly " what a man can do a woman can do better "

Men are told to be strong and not to cry when they go through painful experiences,

which is causes them to fall into depression,because they must hide their pain while the girl child is allowed to express hers 😢

Today if aman is jobless he can't have family.
our young men fear marriage like a plaque.

The untold stories of men being mistreated in homes must still be hidden underneath why?

Immediately a man loses his job the wife will be taken away by her people.

Some girls will be supported by their brothers but warned not to welcome her desperate husband.

Men buy love to survive.....a man without money should count himself unloved unvalued.

she will run away and term him as a Deadbeat dad. later If God remembers that man she will be acting like a monitoring spirit.all over the social media calling him names .

If a man is financially handicapped he is denied to see his own children imagine.

If both man and women are working all the bills belong to the man but the woman's money belongs to her.

I must say the world is very cruel to the boychild

Look at the men when they retire,unless he invested heavily....bure the same children he suffered to educate will be buying luxurious things f

The measure of intelligence isn't how much you know-it's how quickly you can admit what you don't. The smartest people in the World are often the fastest to say "I was wrong" or "I don't know.

*Teach the correct pathway*

*THE FOLLOWING ARE THE 8 CAREER PATHWAYS*

*1. NATURAL SCIENCE PATH WAY* (STEM)
❑ ENGLISH
❑MATHEMATICS
❑ICT
❑PHYSICS
❑CHEMISTRY
❑BIOLOGY
❑CIVIC EDUCATION

*2. AGRICULTURE SCIENCE PATHWAY* (STEM)
❑ AGRIC SCIENCE
❑ ENGLISH
❑MATHS
❑ CIVIC EDUCATION
❑CHEMISTRY
❑PHYSICS
❑ ICT

*3. TECHNOLOGY PATHWAYS* (STEM)
❑ DESIGN & TECHNOLOGY/ COMPUTER STUDIES
❑ ENGLISH
❑MATHS
❑CIVIC EDUCATION
❑PHYSICS
❑CHEMISTRY
❑ICT
NOTE: LEARNERS WHO WILL CHOOSE COMPUTER
SCIENCE , WILL NOT TAKE ICT.

*4. HOME ECONOMICS & HOSPITALITY* (STEM)
❑ FN/FF/HOSPITALITY MANAGENT/TRAVEL & TOURISM.
❑ ENGLISH
❑MATHS
❑CIVIC EDUCATION
❑BIOLOGY
❑CHEMISTRY
❑ICT
❑ SWAHILI/FRENCH/PORTUGUSE/CHINESE
Note: CHEMISTRY MAY BE AN OPTION TO THOSE
TAKING TRAVEL & TOURISM

*5. SOCIAL SCIENCES PATH WAY.*(NON STEM)
❑ GEO/HIS/RE
❑ ENGLISH
❑MATHS
❑CIVIC EDUCATION
❑ ICT
❑ CHEM/PHY/BIO
❑ LIT. ENG/LIT. ZL/
SWAHILI/FRENCH/PORTUGUSE/CHINESEEACH

*6. BUSINESS AND FINANCE PATHWAY.* (NON STEM)
❑ PRINCIPLES OF ACCOUNTS
❑COMMERCE
❑ENGLISH
❑MATHS
❑CIVIC EDUCATION
❑ ICT
❑GEO/HIS/RE/CHE/PHY/BIO

*7. PERFORMING AND CREATIVE ARTS.* (NON STEM)
❑ MUSIC/ART & DESIGN
❑ENGLISH
❑MATHEMATICS
❑ CIVIC EDUCATION
❑ZL
❑ICT
❑LIT IN ENG/LIT IN ZL.

*8. PHYSICAL EDUCATION & SPORTS* (NON STEM) .
❑ PHYSICAL EDUCATION
❑ENGLISH
❑MATHS
❑CIVIC EDUCATION
❑ICT
❑BIOLOGY
❑GEO/HIS/RE/CHEM/PHY

*Nothing is permanent. Don't stress yourself too much, because no matter how bad the situation is... It will change.*

The more that you read, the more things you will know, the more that you learn, the more places you'll go.” ...

“Education is one thing no one can take away from you.” ...