Don't Become That Man

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Don't Become That Man Don't Become That Man is a helpline, supported by early intervention and prevention programs for men

Our helpline and services support men who are genuinely concerned about losing control. Our trained counsellors are available between 8am – 8pm on 1300 24 34 13 to provide immediate intervention. Following this initial contact with our counsellors, longer interventions and support will be provided to help men to understand the behaviour and make positive changes. In recent times we have seen highly publicised and significant domestic violence / abuse events result in an increase in men reaching out to helplines across Australia, seeking help to stop the spiral of controlling or potentially violent behaviour. They want to make sure their behaviour doesn't result in a similar disaster happening to the women or children in their lives. Our priority is to ensure the safety of the women and children associated with the men who reach out to us. The aim of DBTM is to get in early enough to reduce the likelihood of a man’s controlling behaviour escalating to violence or lethal violence.

As part of Gambling Harm Action Week, the OARS Community Transitions Don’t Become That Man team joined our Gambling Supp...
27/10/2026

As part of Gambling Harm Action Week, the OARS Community Transitions Don’t Become That Man team joined our Gambling Support Service colleagues at SkyCity Adelaide to raise awareness and connect people with support.

Many people are surprised to learn that gambling harm and domestic and family violence can be closely linked. Financial stress, secrecy, debt, coercive control, financial abuse, and relationship conflict can all be associated with problematic gambling behaviours.

While gambling itself does not cause domestic and family violence, it can contribute to circumstances where harmful behaviours escalate and partners, children, and families are negatively impacted.

The conversations we had throughout the day highlighted the importance of recognising these connections, understanding the impact our choices have on others, and seeking support early.

Creating safer relationships starts with taking responsibility for our actions, being honest about the harm they may cause, and being willing to make changes.

Whether the harm relates to gambling, controlling behaviours, financial abuse, intimidation, or violence, support is available and change is possible.

Thank you to everyone who stopped by to chat with our team.
📞 OARS Community Transitions Gambling Support Service: 8249 0700
📞 Don’t Become That Man Program: 1300 24 34 13

Don’t become the person who justifies harm. Become the person who takes responsibility for change.

Monday - Friday2pm - 7pm
25/03/2026

Monday - Friday
2pm - 7pm

Addressing violence at the source. Program and individual participants who have engaged with our services due to concern...
26/11/2025

Addressing violence at the source. Program and individual participants who have engaged with our services due to concerns about their violence or controlling behaviours have provided important feedback and insight into their journey and change

🌿 Join us for the Walk for Respect 2025 🌿OARS Community Transitions is proud to again walk in solidarity at the Walk for...
15/09/2025

🌿 Join us for the Walk for Respect 2025 🌿

OARS Community Transitions is proud to again walk in solidarity at the Walk for Respect with Rotary District 9510 - a peaceful community event standing together against domestic, family and sexual violence.

📅 Saturday 11 October 2025
📍 From Victoria Square (9am) to Festival Plaza

This year’s theme continues to highlight the power of respectful relationships, with inspiring speakers rounding out the walk.

💜 Walk with us to show your support, connect with community, and contribute to a safer, more respectful future.

👉 Register for free: https://lnkd.in/gA3yegiM

☎️ Don’t Become That Man: 1300 24 34 13

12/01/2025

29/08/2024
Sunday 7th of July is the beginning of NAIDOC Week and runs until July 14th.  National NAIDOC Week celebrations are held...
07/07/2024

Sunday 7th of July is the beginning of NAIDOC Week and runs until July 14th. National NAIDOC Week celebrations are held across Australia in the first week of July each year (Sunday to Sunday), to celebrate and recognise the history, culture, and achievements of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. NAIDOC Week is an increased opportunity for all Australians to learn about First Nations cultures and histories and participate in celebrations of the oldest, continuous living cultures on earth.

The 2024 National NAIDOC Week theme is Keep the Fire Burning! Blak, Loud & Proud – honouring the enduring strength and vitality of First Nations culture – with fire as a symbol of connection to Country, to each other, and to the risk tapestry of traditions that define Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

We seek to help keep the fire burning, and celebrate NAIDOC week with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.

Check out the  website, opening the conversation and questions/scenarios to consider.If you are concerned about your beh...
28/06/2024

Check out the website, opening the conversation and questions/scenarios to consider.

If you are concerned about your behaviour, or that of someone you know, call us on 1300 24 34 13 and speak to one of our experienced intervention counsellors.

OARS  are pleased to share that we have regained our funding for  service. The South Australian Government made the anno...
22/06/2024

OARS are pleased to share that we have regained our funding for service. The South Australian Government made the announcement yesterday.

Early intervention initiatives, such as Don’t Become That Man aim to change the trajectory for individuals who may be at a higher risk of using violence, abuse and control.

The service is open Monday - Friday, from 2pm to 5pm, call on 1300 24 34 13, or visit our website for live chat www.dontbecomethatman.org.au

article here https://www.indaily.com.au/news/2024/06/21/funding-for-mens-early-intervention-program

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Adelaide, SA
5000

Opening Hours

Monday 2pm - 7pm
Tuesday 2pm - 7pm
Wednesday 2pm - 7pm
Thursday 2pm - 7pm
Friday 2pm - 7pm

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+611300243413

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