Hearts Breathing My Indelible Ink

Pasasaan ba't huhulaw din, liliwanag muli ang kalangitan at makikita ang bahaghari. Hindi naman kasi permanente ang ulan, minsan kailangan lang din huminga ng mga ulap at ibuhos ang nararamdaman sa lupa.

Kaya huwag kang matakot umiyak, at ipakitang napapagod ka. Tao ka lang, hindi kahinaan ang magpahinga— hindi kalabisan ang sumandal sandali sa balikat ng iba. Ayos lang 'yan, hayaan mong pawiin ng mga luha mo 'yong bigat na pilit mong pinapasan mag-isa.

The Eagle does not fight the snake on the ground. It picks it up into the sky and changes the battleground, and then it releases the snake into the sky.

The snake has no stamina, no power, and no balance in the air. It is useless, weak, and vulnerable unlike on the ground where it is powerful wise and deadly.
Take your fight into the spiritual realm by praying and when you are in the spiritual realm G0D takes over your battles.

Don't fight the enemy in his comfort zone, change the battlegrounds like the Eagle and let G0D take charge through your earnest prayer. You'll be assured of clean victory.

Pray without ceasing!!

Para sa mga araw na parang walang pag-usad.
Sana'y huwag ka ring huminto sa paghakbang, sa paglakad.
Dahil kahit saan ka man mapadpad—
Ang mahalaga'y nakarating kahit hindi man kaagad.

Para sa mga inaasahan.
Nawa'y sa sarili ikaw ay maging marahan.
Ang pag-amin ng kahinaan ay hindi kasalanan—
At hindi mo kailangang sarilinin ang bigat na iyong nararamdaman.

Para sa mga naghahabol ng pangarap.
Makapaghihintay naman ang mundo.
Ang para sa'yo ay para sa'yo—
Basta't ginagawa mo ang parte mo.

Para sa mga pagod na hindi kaya ng pahinga.
Matagpuan mo pa rin sana ang pagkalma.
Makayanan mo pa rin sana—
Ang bumangon pagsapit ng umaga.

Para sa'yo.
Mahalaga ka,
Kahit sa mga sandaling—
Pakiramdam mo ay kulang ka.

People will notice the change in your attitude towards them...but wont notice their behavior that made u Change..

a reminder that most of the women on this page are dv survivors. many are still in active abusive situations. so if you're triggered by a post or comment, take a moment before replying. remember the medium we're using. communication is 80% non verbal so we miss much on this virtual platform.

before you hit post on your comment, consider how you would feel receiving it.

we don't need to agree 100% on everything to commiserate on the common ground we do have. we can disagree and share info respectfully.

if we don't learn how to organize collectively in spite of our differences, we will never get the changes we need.

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The worst part is having mutual friends or family members that don't understand and don't try to because they believe the person who adopts their persona of perfection and kindness when it's necessary so that you DO end up looking like the crazy one... I know this is one of their many tactics... But having people you care about turn the other way... 😞😞

Mentally abusive is the correct word! Leaves no trace but cuts like a knife!

So so true, they lie about you to make themselves look like the goodie, they absolutely try & destroy you in every way.m

They also try to sway everyone you know into their corner, alienate you so you feel defenseless with no support system!

TRUTH! It ended up feeling like the invisible woman...didn’t consider as anything other than a basic extension of himself...And also very difficult when others don’t understand that painful process — words, touches, emotions, trust, memories, dreams — everything is a new discovery and strength... It is hard work for everyone (not the abuser, she’s unscathed)

BATTERED WIFE SYNDROME

Battered wife syndrome is a mental disorder that develops in victims of domestic violence as a result of serious long term abuse.

Stages include

1.The tension building phase: this stage the man becomes angry with little provocation but maybe quick to apologize after battery incident, she rationalizes his behavior, the abuser becomes jealous ND possessive with fear that the partner will leave him then result to using threat and brutality to keep her in captivity,he then engages in behaviors that will create relationship tension

2: Acute battering incident phase: this phase is the most violent,the abuser begins to justify his behavior and wanting to teach the woman a lesson,the tension explode and the abuser begins to commit all forms of abuse such as physical, psychological, emotional, sexual etc the woman feels her only option is to find a safe place to hide from the abuser

3: calm, loving and honeymoon phase: the honeymoon involves the abuser making amends for his bad behavior,he becomes extremely loving,kind, he promises never to hit her again,she believes him,he buys her gifts,takes her out, plays on her feelings of guilt, during this phase the woman relieves her original dreams of ideal love and chooses to believe that this is what her partner is really like.during the honeymoon stage the abuser is forgiven and the cycle begins again!

Now you know why women never leaves an abusive marriage,this is what happens to them over and over again...

With sub categories - personal abuse, vindictive abuse, manipulative abuse, what else - SYSTEM ABUSE, let’s not forget that one..