21/10/2026
For this weeks Why, itās one of our admin team, Jo. Iāll let her do the talking:
Iām Jo, and this is my āWhyā. ā¤ļø
I joined Safeguard because Iāve had two really horrendous experiences that I never, ever want another parent to have to go through.
As a mum, there are some words you never forget.
āMum, Iāve been stabbed. Centre of my chest.ā š±
Thankfully, it was winter and he was wearing three layers of clothing. If it had been summer, the outcome could have been very different.
But I still get to hug my son. ā¤ļø
Then there was another night when he was drugged and mugged in a club in Bournemouth.
All I had was a garbled phone call at 5am.
I drove down there trying to find him, not knowing where he was or what had happened. Three hours later, he appeared. He didnāt know what had happened to him or even where he had been.
Those experiences stay with you.
So when I found Safeguard, I knew I wanted to be involved.
Iām predominantly part of the admin team, but Iāve also been out on patrol. And Iāve seen first-hand why what we do matters.
Iāve read the comments saying weāre a waste of time, that we make no difference, that weāre just wasting shoe leather.
Well, Iāve seen the difference.
One evening, a group of 6ā8 males were harassing a young woman. She made contact with us and, as we started to approach the group, they ran.
Did we know exactly what might have happened if we hadnāt been there?
No.
But we do know that, in that moment, our presence made a difference.
For me, this isnāt about trying to be heroes.
Itās about people being able to go out, enjoy their evening and, most importantly, get home safely to their families.
Because I know exactly how it feels to be the mum waiting for that phone call.
Thatās my Why.
Whatās yours? Could you help us make a difference too? ā¤ļø