21/04/2021
It is a Zen-kind of a book in the mold of books like Zen Ties, Zen Socks, and Zen Shorts by John J. Muth. The book is meant for anyone from 8 to 80 years old. In the words of the author – It is meant to be one you can dip into anywhere, anytime. In other words, when one is feeling short of hope, inspiration, motivation, or saddled with fears, worries, or sadness, pick this book up and it will pick you up.
The book is in the form of conversation or questions and answers between four characters – the boy, the mole, the fox, and the horse. The boy was lonely before he met mole. Mole is conscious of his small size and his significance in life. The fox has been through difficult times and his outlook is shaped by the hurts he is carrying in his heart which is symbolized by his silence. The horse is the biggest and gentlest. He is also full of wisdom, not unlike an elder in the family who has seen all the ups and downs of life.
The story starts with the mole musing about his size. The boy tells mole that the size is immaterial. He may be small but his presence still makes a huge difference. If you ever doubt your place in this universe remember you are here because nature wants you and has an important role for you in this universe.
The second question is probably the most profound question in the entire book. The question - what do you want to be when you grow up? - doesn’t elicit the typical response like a doctor, a musician, a fashion designer, or an author. The boy replied to the mole –
“I WANT TO BE KIND WHEN I GROW UP”.
Well, how many of us think like that or instill a value of KINDNESS above everything else. What if all of us wanted to become kind when we grew up instead of chasing dreams of more possessions, more money, and more power. Difficult but it would change the face of this world!
Have you ever thought about success in terms of love? This is what the mole tells the boy when he asked him what success means to him.
The discussion veers to what is the biggest waste of time. The answer is not surprising – comparing ourselves to others, as it either makes us vain or miserable. The boy wistfully thinks only if there was a school of unlearning, which shows that it is not easy to give up our old habits even when they aren’t right.
Next, the discussion turns to fear and the mole thinks if there is one thing that surely kills dreams it is fear. Love your dreams because they have the power to change the world.
The boy and the mole come across a fox tethered to a stake. Is the mole scared of the fox? No, not even when the fox threatens to kill him if he were untethered. Unafraid, the mole chewed the wire which restrained the fox from pouncing on him and making a meal of him. Isn’t it liberating to be free of fear?
“ONE OF OUR GREATEST FREEDOMS IS HOW WE REACT TO THINGS.”
How we use this freedom decides whether it is a blessing or a bane of our existence.
When the mole subsequently fell in a pond, it is the fox that rescues the mole, repaying the mole’s good deed with a generous deed of its own. Kindness begets kindness! Something to always keep in mind, even when out of habit, we behave otherwise.
The mole muses that, while being kind to others is uplifting, being kind to self is the greatest of all kindness and is as uplifting because it is not dependent on others. Probably those who are kind to themselves are capable of being kind to others.
If you have difficulty living in present, the mole has a simple solution. He finds a quiet spot, shuts his eyes, breaths, and focuses on what he loves most – cake!
Admiring the beauty of nature the boy reflects we can only see things outside, but everything happens on the inside. If only we had the eyes that could see inside.
The three friends meet the horse. The four of them love each other’s company. They have fun together as the boy and the mole ride on their new friend. Then the discussion turns to more serious matters as the boy falls in the water and the horse picks him up.
He reassures the boy that we are all scared but when we are together we are not that scared. At the same time, crying doesn’t make us look weak but it is our strength.
The boy is in a mood to ask the horse more questions and gets more nuggets of wisdom. When asked about the bravest thing he had said, the horse replied – HELP. It is because when you ask for help you are refusing to give up.
When the four of them come across two ducks swimming in the pond the boy wonders how they look so together and perfect. The horse reveals the truth – there is a lot of frantic paddling going on beneath.
At that moment the mole shares the biggest truth of life
“THE GREATEST ILLUSION IS THAT LIFE SHOULD BE PERFECT.”
The horse reassures the boy that life is difficult but you are loved. In a moment of self-doubt, the boy worries his friends would realize he is just ordinary and wonders how come they still love him despite knowing all about him? The mole reassures that they don’t need him to be extraordinary to love him and the horse adds they love him all the more.
The fox is mostly silent and tells his friends that, to be honest, he has nothing interesting to say. The horse, wise as always, tells him that being honest is most interesting.
The mole is curious to know the boy’s perspective whether his glass is half full or half empty. The boy tells that he is just grateful to have a glass.
What’s the advice when things feel out of control? Focus on things that you love. And when dark clouds are hovering above? Keep going, because the storm will pass.
One last piece of advice from the horse before they come to the end of their journey
DON’T MEASURE HOW VALUABLE YOU ARE BY THE WAY YOU ARE TREATED.
Always remember you are important and you are loved. You have your place in the world.

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