If I Had One Wish, You Would Be Mine Forever, Mumbai (2026)

05/05/2025

How to Touch a Woman

S*x isn’t a conquest.

It’s an act of devotion.

And most men are still stuck at page one.

Women talk about s*x differently than men.

It’s not a myth. It’s not some Cosmo fantasy.

It’s real and it’s humbling if you ever actually listen.

They talk about or***ms the way men talk about football injuries,

… what worked, what didn’t, how long it took,

… how sometimes they just faked it to get it over with because the fu***it thought he was auditioning instead of actually paying attention to her body.

The problem is that most men were taught how to f**k, not how to feel.

That’s why most women leave emotionally long before they leave physically.

Meanwhile, most guys are out here still trying to navigate s*x with a roadmap written by drunk cavemen.

Jackhammering like it’s an Olympic event, wondering why she looks like she’s mentally reorganising the pantry instead of moaning.

P**n taught him that jackhammering equals passion.

Locker room wisdom taught him that asking questions equals weakness.

And ego taught him that if a woman doesn’t come, it’s her fault for being “complicated.”.

Look, here’s the uncomfortable truth:

You don’t deserve her body if you can’t hold her heart.

Full stop.

Most men have no idea what they’re doing when it comes to women’s bodies.

And worse they don’t know how much they don’t know, because no one ever told them that it’s okay to ask.

You think good s*x is about being harder, faster, stronger?

It’s not.

It’s about being present

P**n taught you how to finish.
But it didn’t teach you how to connect

You were taught to perform.

To conquer.

Not to feel.

Female s*xuality isn’t a Rubik’s Cube you have to solve.

It’s a universe you’re supposed to show up for.

Actual, real, soul-level presence. That’s rare.

Meanwhile, woman are over there swapping notes like secret agents.

“Did he touch you like this?”

“Did he even bother asking what you liked?”

“Did you have to fake it, or was it actually good?”

“Did you make a connection?”

It’s a conference over coffee.

Meanwhile, most men are somewhere between “Did she come?”

and “I think so? … Maybe?

… close enough.”

But here’s the thing about female s*xuality that every man should tattoo into his brain:

If all you bring is your game,
don’t be surprised when all she feels is emptiness.

She’s not a vending machine.

You don’t push the right button and get the or**sm you ordered.

It’s a conversation.

A surrender.

A trust

It’s her nervous system, her body, her heart , all deciding if they feel safe enough to let go.

And if you’re too busy trying to win at s*x, she’s too busy trying to survive it.

Your c**k Isn’t the Gift. Your Presence Is.

Female pleasure isn’t about technique.

It’s about presence.

It’s about actually being there.

Not just your c**k.

Not just your ego.

You.

Without presence, s*x isn’t intimacy.
It’s just two strangers using each other to forget how lonely they are.

So maybe you could ask her what she likes.

Ask her how she feels.

Ask her what she’s scared to tell you.

And then, simply listen.

Not with your c**k.

With your whole entire soul.

Touch her like you genuinely care about the answer.

Feel her , not just physically, but emotionally, energetically, deeply.

Because, If you don’t know how to ask a woman what she likes,
you’re not ready to touch her at all

Because a woman’s pleasure is not some scavenger hunt you complete by luck.

It’s the reward for being awake.

It’s what happens when she feels safe enough to stop surviving you, and actually surrender to herself.

Women don’t want a performance.

They want presence.

And most men are still too scared to give it.

But trust me, If she trusts you enough to open,

you’ll find that she isn’t complicated at all.

She’s an entire universe waiting to be explored.

But only if you have the courage to slow way down, get curious, and stop making her pleasure about your performance review.

You want better s*x?

Then just stop trying to perform and start trying to connect.

Stop trying to win.

Start trying to feel.

Real s*x starts when your ego shuts up and your soul finally shows up.

And maybe , just maybe , you’ll finally understand the part they don’t teach you from P**n

S*x isn’t about trying to “make her come.”

You’re trying to create a space where she feels safe enough to BEcome.

It’s about making her trust you enough to let go,

not just come and go

If you don’t get that, you’re still playing at love, not living it.

You’re just rehearsing your loneliness inside her.

The best s*x of your life isn’t about getting harder, lasting longer, or “dominating” stuff you don’t even understand.

It’s about waking the up.

About dropping the script.

About touching a woman like she’s a living, breathing miracle ,

not a trophy, not a test, not a p**n highlight reel.

A true miracle.

And if you do that , if you really show up,

you’ll realise something that every woman already knows:

S*x is easy.

Connection is RARE, and precious.

Presence is everything.

If you can’t be present with her,
it doesn’t matter how good you are at in bed,
you’re still leaving her alone in the dark.

So go re-learn everything you thought you knew.

And PLEASE

ask her what she likes.

You might just find she’s been waiting to tell you all along.