Odhiambo Obolo JR.

LESSONS FOR F00LISH WOMEN WHO DESTROYED THEIR MARRIAGE:

They thought they were upgrading. They thought leaving their husbands for “freedom” and “independence” would give them peace, happiness, and self -discovery.

Now they’re out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights.

Here are 10 painful realities women only realize after destroying marriage:

1. No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did: That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside? No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior.

2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent:
Online feminists will hype you up, but when you’re broke, lonely, and falling apart, they won’t offer a dime or a shoulder.

3. S3x̌uäl Market Value Drops with Age:
You’re not 24 anymore. You’re older, more baggage, less patience. The options shrink. The demands increase. And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women.

4. “Freedom” Is Just Loneliness in Disguise: You thought you were escaping a “boring marriage,” now you’re eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence.

5. Your Kids Suffer the Most:
You broke a family to chase trends. Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability. No structure.

6. Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor: You thought it made you strong? It made life 10x harder. Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden.

7. Hypergamy Has a Deadline: You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow.

8. Attention Is Not the Same as Respect:
You may still get likes and DMs. But no one respects you anymore. You’re entertainment, not investment.

9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away: He wasn’t perfect, but he gave you peace. Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it.

10. The Internet Doesn’t Care About Your Regrets

List of All Traffic Offenses and Their Fines - NTSA

Rule 12(1)(b) - Learner driving without "L" plates on the front and rear - Kshs 1,000.

Rule 130C(1) and (3) - Individuals driving a PSV vehicle without being the designated driver - Kshs 5,000.

Rule 22A(1) and (2) - Failure by the owner of the vehicle to have seat belts in the motor vehicle - Kshs 1,000 per seat.

Rule 22A(5) and (6) - PSV conductor’s failure to keep seat belts in a clean, dry and generally wearable condition - Kshs 500.

Rule 25 - Failure of a vehicle to carry warning signs (lifesavers) - Kshs 2,000.

Rule 41A - Failure to fit the prescribed speed governor in PSV and Commercial Vehicles - Kshs 10,000.

Rule 54A - A person driving or operating a PSV with tinted windows or windscreen - Kshs 2,000.

Rule 56(1), (2) - Failure of a PSV to carry functional re extinguishers and re kits - Kshs 2,000.

Rule 59A(1) - Driver using a mobile phone while the vehicle is in motion - Kshs 2,000.

Rule 65(f) and 72 - The driver of a motor omnibus or matatu picking or setting down passengers in a place that is not authorized as a bus stop or terminal - Kshs 3,000.

Rule 68(1)(x) and 72 - A passenger alighting or boarding any omnibus or matatu at a place which is not authorized as a bus stop or terminal - Kshs1,000.

Rule 80 - Travelling with part of the body outside a moving vehicle. it guarantees a fine - Kshs 1,000.

Section 101(2) - Failure of the conductor to refund the fare for the incomplete portion of the journey for which full fare has been paid- Kshs 5,000.

Section 103(1) and (2) - Touting- Kshs 3,000.

Section 103A(1) and (7) - Failure of a PSV driver or conductor to wear the special badge and uniform- Kshs 2,000.

Section 103B(1) and (7) - Motorcycle rider riding without protective gear- Kshs 1,000.

Section 103B(1) and (7) - Motorcycle passenger riding without protective gear- Kshs 1,000.

Section 12(1) and 14 Rule 7 of Traffic Rules - Driving without identification plates or plates not fixed in the prescribed manner - Kshs 10,000.

Section 130C (1) and (3) - The driver of a PSV driver who lets an unauthorized person drive - Kshs 5,000.

Section 16(2) and 17A(3) - Driving a vehicle without a valid inspection certificate inspected - Kshs 10,000.

Section 22A(3) and (4) - Failure to wear a seat belt while the motor vehicle is in motion - Kshs 500.

Section 30(1) and (7) - Driving without a valid driving license endorsement in respect of the class of vehicle - Kshs 7,000.

Section 30(4) and 41 - Failure to renew a driving license - Kshs 1,000.

Section 33(c) and 41 - Driving a PSV while unqualified - Kshs 7,000.

Section 36(1) and (3) - Failing to carry and produce a driving license on demand - Kshs 1,000.

Section 42(1) - Exceeding speed limit prescribed for the class of vehicle by 6-10kph - Kshs 3,000.

Section 42(1) - Exceeding speed limit prescribed for the class of vehicle by 11-15kph - Kshs 6,000.

Section 42(1) - Exceeding speed limit prescribed for the class of vehicle by 16-20kph - Kshs 10,000.

Section 42(1) - Exceeding speed limit prescribed for the class of vehicle by 1-5 kph - Kshs 500.

Section 45A(1) and (2) - Driving on or through pavement or a pedestrian walkway- Kshs 5,000.

Section 52(1)(a) and 52(2) - Failure of a driver to obey any directions given, whether verbally or by signal, by a police officer in uniform, in the ex*****on of their duty- Kshs 3,000.

Section 52(1)(b) and (2) - Failure of a driver to conform to the indications given by any traffic sign- Kshs 3,000.

Section 52(1)(c) and (2) - Failure of a driver to stop when required to do so by a police officer in uniform- Kshs 5,000.

Section 53(1) and 67 - Causing obstruction by allowing a vehicle to remain in any position on the road so as to obstruct or cause inconvenience or to other motorists using the road- Kshs 10,000.

Section 53(3) and (4) - Failure to display reflective triangles or lifesavers in cases where any part of the vehicle remains on the road in a position so as to obstruct or cause obstruction-Kshs 3,000.

Section 60(1) and 60(2) - Driver of a motorcycle carrying more than one pillion passenger-Shirks 1,000.

Section 90(2)(a) and 94 - Driving a vehicle on a footpath Kshs-5,000.

Section 90(2)(c) and 94 - Pedestrian willfully obstructing the free passage of vehicles- Kshs 500.

Section 98(1) and 104 - Unlicensed people driving or acting as the conductor of a PSV- Kshs 5,000.

Section 98(1) and 104 - Owner or operator of PSV employing an unlicensed PSV driver or conductor- Kshs 10,000.

THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A Book written by Robert Greene that offers a Series of Strategies for Obtaining and Maintaining Power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 Laws:

1. Don't Outshine the Boss: Make your Superiors feel Superior. Don't expose your Talent too much or you might Trigger their Insecurity.

2.Don't Trust friends too much, use your Enemies: Friends Betray you more easily, but if you Manage to WIN an Enemy, they will be more Loyal.

3. Hide your Intentions: Keep People Off Balance so they can't anticipate your Actions.

4. Always say Less than Necessary: Silence Breeds Power, and Talking too much Reveals your Plans.

5. Protect your Reputation at all Costs: Reputation is the Cornerstone of Power.

6. Call Attention at all Costs: Be Visible to be Relevant.

7. Make others Work for you and Attribute it: Take Advantage of the Work and Effort of others to your Advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't Run after Others, make them Look for you.

9. Win with Actions, Never Arguments: Prove your Point through Actions, Not Words.

10. Avoid Losers and Unhappy: The Misfortune of others is Contagious; stay away from those who Bring you Down.

11. Make People Depend on you: If others Depend on you, you're in Control.

12. Disarm with Sincerity and Selective Generosity: Emotional Disarmament will give you an Edge.

13. When you ask for Help, Appeal to the Interests of Others: Appeal to what Benefits Others, not Gratitude or Compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a Friend, act as a Spy: Learn to Extract Valuable Information from others without them Noticing.

15. Crush your Enemy Completely: Do not let your Enemy Recover, or he will seek Revenge.

16. Use Absence to Increase Respect: The Value of something Increases with Scarcity..

17. Keep Others in Suspense: Be Unpredictable, you will Confuse Others and Gain Power.

18. Do Not Isolate yourself: Loneliness Weakens you; Engage yourself in the Web of Influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your Independence so you don't get Caught up in other People's Affairs.

21. Pretend to be a Fool to Catch the Sly: Let others think they have an Advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the Right Time gives you the Advantage.

23. Focus your Forces: Keep your Energy Focused on what really Matters.

24. Be a Master at Simulation and Disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

NEXT -OF- KIN in banking sector.

When death occurs, the NEXT- OF - KIN WILL NOT HAVE ANY ACCESS TO THE MONEY IN DECEASED ACCOUNT So many people think that their next of kin is the automatic heir to their account. But the truth is that if your next of kin is not a signatory to your account, and you don’t have a written will to determine that person’s legitimacy, the person will not have access to that money at all.
Your bank will have to go through a process called a LEGAL PROBATE. This probate period helps them determine who gets the money in your account.
This is a very lengthy and expensive process. Even after the whole process is done, your family will have to forfeit some reasonable amount of the money for legal fees. But if you want to avoid this , simply request for your bank to give you something called a POD form. POD stands for PAYABLE ON DEATH. The name of the person you fill in that POD form will determine who will get your money. All the person needs to bring is a death certificate to get that money out.
With a POD form, you will save your family the stress of going through all that lengthy legal process and even loosing some money to the Law.
I thought I should inform everyone coz information is power.

One day, reality will be better than your dreams.

Que sera, sera