Ms. Bulge Ambassador 2025

Dallas Eagle Contest Night! I’m excited to see what our Ms. and Mr. Contestants bring to the stage tonight!

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This morning I’m heading back home from IMLBB. I had a great experience working on staff this year and participating in the education track.

To the friends I traveled with, was reunited with and made this weekend, safe travels home! We all came to IMLBB for different reasons and I hope that no matter what you left with something that you wanted or needed. As we go back to our day to day lives, be gentle with yourself- body, mind and spirit and don’t forget you still carry the magic of these events when you leave. You in fact contributed to the magic that we all experience when we come together in our crazy, kinky, Leather spaces. ✨

Congratulations to 2026 IML Honey Davenport and 2026 IMBB Atlas Rose! ❤️🖤💙

If you’re in Chicago this weekend come out tomorrow! ❤️💙🖤

This week I had the pleasure of facilitating “Ask a S*x Doula: Pleasure, Intimacy & Desire During Pregnancy & Postpartum” with The Amina Institute PTY, and I’m leaving the space feeling incredibly grateful.

So much of my work as Ms. BULGE Ambassador centers visibility, embodiment, consent, care, and honest conversations about our lives and bodies. Being able to hold space for conversations around pleasure, intimacy, desire, and postpartum identity felt deeply aligned with that mission.

Thank you to everyone who showed up with openness, vulnerability, wisdom, and curiosity. Conversations like these remind me how powerful it is when we create spaces where people are allowed to be fully human. 💜

I’m excited to be teaching in the Professional Track at Thrive this year. My session is designed for mental health professionals, educators, coaches, healers, and others who want to deepen their understanding of B**M communities through a culturally grounded, trauma informed, and consent centered lens.

My work focuses on the intersections of embodiment, mental health, relational dynamics, and B**M, with practical tools for supporting clients and communities with greater care, nuance, and competence.

If this work speaks to you, I’d love to have you in the room. Registration is open now: https://thrivevirtualcon.com

You can find my session in the “Pro Track (Room 4)” column on the schedule.

We’re incredibly grateful to Kink Center for their generous support of THRIVE 2026! Their donation is fully covering the cost of ASL interpretation for our Opening and Closing Ceremonies.

Please join us in thanking Kink Center and supporting the important work they do:

fetlife.com/KinkCenter
instagram.com/kinkcenter
bsky.app/profile/kinkcenter.org

And if you haven’t yet, registration is open for THRIVE 2026, happening May 29–31! We’d love to have you join us:

Register for THRIVE 2026 at https://THRIVEvirtualcon.com