Actually I don't agree with Simon!! Venting and gossiping are actually two sides of the same toxic coin, none of them is healthy in any meaning and experts strongly oppose both. Venting may seem a little less harmful than gossiping, but they’re forms of complaining that only create negativity in any environment.
When you complain, you might cast yourself as the victim, though it’s actually the other person you’re focusing on. But when you speak up with purpose, you reclaim control—you either leave, change, or accept the situation. Anything else only leads to frustration.
When we vent or gossip, it’s easy to blur the lines between healthy release and harmful storytelling. Venting may feel like an outlet, but when we complain without any action, we’re simply feeding negativity. It doesn’t just impact the person being discussed—it shapes how others see us, too. Repeated gossip can erode trust, especially if people notice we're quick to share someone else's details or twist stories for dramatic effect.
A therapist, Naiylah Warren, points out that venting can turn into gossip without us even noticing, especially when we share information without permission or add extra “flair” to stories. Gossip and venting become toxic when they’re used for drama rather than to make a genuine change. Complaining for the sake of it, without a plan to resolve the issue, often does more harm than good.
For healthier relationships, try focusing on the real issue and taking steps to address it. Complaints alone don’t create progress—action does.
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Realizing the fact that being the members of Generation-Z, the most responsible community to decide the fate of our homeland, we students of NUST Pakistan have launched an awareness campaign to discuss our potential role and responsibilities.
14/06/2024
Given her status as a newcomer in the glamorous realms of TV, media, and video creation, Farheen's effort is commendable.
Despite a few minor glitches, her choice of topic, substance, and content selection is truly thought-provoking and insightful, reflecting her dedication and enthusiasm as an experienced educationist
Does education need a system? | Conversation with Kashif Ahmed Does education need a system? ...
11/06/2024
It’s all about your circle. Your network is not only your net worth—it’s your lifeline!
🌟People make decisions based on the level of their heartset that feeds their mindset, and mostly because of those around them. Because those five people you spend the most time with make you their 6th.
If you want to feel energized, fulfilled, and accomplished, then look around you.
Ask yourself these few questions:
🏅Who are your real friends?
🏅What circle do you actually belong to?
🏆What is your motive, your purpose in life?
If these items mentioned above cannot make you feel good about yourself and those around you, then change everything.
It’s when you make a change that everything changes.
Your circle is important. Get inspired and follow your heart, your instincts, and your intuition.
09/06/2024
🌟 The Rule of 100 🌟
The Rule of 100 states that if you spend 100 hours a year, which is just 18 minutes a day, on any discipline, you'll be better than 95% of people in that field!
Conversely, if you're forced into a system that prioritizes compliance over learning and insists on following instructions no matter what, you'll end up in the bottom 95%.
Education is about learning, and learning is a natural human instinct. It needs to flow naturally without interruption and definitely does not need a rigid system. Instead, it requires nurturing, continuous support, and specialist guidance whenever necessary.
🚨 Remember! 🚨
Wrong is always wrong, even if everyone is doing it, and right is always right, even if no one is doing it. Both of these are stark realities of life.
The choice is yours, and with that choice comes the responsibility and accountability for your decision.
07/06/2024
We need ALLIES, ADVOCATES, and fierce DEFENDERS!
Did you know that 70% of the best performers have a strong ally in life and work? It's true, and it's about much more than water cooler chats.
We're talking about genuine supporters. The kind of folks who cheer for your wins, give you constructive criticism, and help you navigate the tricky waters of professional life.
These individuals can be your secret weapon to skyrocketing your career and overall resputition in a family, community or society. But, how do you identify them?
Here are five concrete ways to spot your true supporters:
They celebrate your achievements, not just theirs.
They're not afraid to give you honest feedback.
They listen more than they talk during your conversations.
They offer help without expecting anything in return.
They bring positivity to your work and your life, not drama.
Do you have these people in your life?
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In my school of thought, leadership goes beyond logic. It encompasses a realm where heartset, creativity, and emotions reign supreme.
Leaders who can navigate both realms—logic and beyond logic—are better equipped to inspire, innovate, and connect with others on a deeper level.
Embracing this dual approach allows for a richer, more fulfilling life and career, where every interaction becomes an opportunity for growth and connection.
For a short answer here is the link to my contribution with other top experts:
[https://lnkd.in/d-HmPct6]. But in this recent artice, are the complete deatils on how creativity works, how to tap into your hidden creative genius as leaders, and how to nourish your inborn skills and nurture ture leadership with creative thinking as a habit:
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/mastering-creativity-unleashing-your-hidden-genius-leader-ahmed-wihrf/
23/04/2024
آپ کا بنیادی عنصر اصل چیز ہے جو در اصل آپ کی انسانیت یعنی اچھائی ، بہتری اور بھلائی ہے، ہنر یا کوئی ٹیلینٹ نہیں، اور کسی کا عنصر یا جوہر تلاش کرنا ہمیشہ اتنا سیدھا اور آسان نہیں ہوتا جتنا کہ کسی شوق یا ہنر کو جاننا اور اخیتار کرنا۔ اس میں اکثر اپنے بارے میں گہری فہم و فراست درکار ہوتی ہے یعنی سلف اویرنس -
بہت سے لوگ آپ کو اپنے شوق،خوابوں یا Passion کے پیچھے بھاگتے رہنے کا فضول مشورہ دیتے ہیں جو در اصل دکان چمکانے کے علاوہ کچھ نہیں .. یہ ایک گزشتہ پوسٹ پر بنائی گئی ویڈیو ہے جس کا لنک یہ ہے :
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Talent, Passion اور Skills وہ نہیں ہوتے، جو آپ سمجھتے ہوں It is the Element, not talent or skill, and finding one's element or purpose isn't always as straightforward as following a passion or talent. It often invol...
True understanding of humans and the humanity comes from the heart, not just the mind!!
It's about empathy, compassion, and connecting with others on a deeper level. When we approach human interactions with an open heart, we appreciate the diversity, struggles, and joys that make us all unique.
The article talks about the essence of genuine leaders, and true leadership of a complete human, the best of all creatures.
Let's embrace empathy, kindness and being more human in our journey to understand and uplift each other.
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13/04/2024
"Nothing in life is to be feared; it only needs to be understood and learnt. All fears start shrinking and disappear in the light of consciousness."
In every aspect of life, fear can be a formidable barrier. However, when we approach challenges with an open mind and a willingness to learn, fear loses its grip.
Understanding the root cause of our fears and actively seeking knowledge not only diminishes their power but also opens doors to growth and resilience.
Let's cultivate a mindset focused on continuous learning and understanding. By doing so, we illuminate the path ahead, turning fear into opportunities for personality development into a fearless leadership.
09/04/2024
Why do you need a degree? To get a job? Why? The traditional path of pursuing a degree to secure a job isn't the way anymore. In fact it never was!
If those years and years of schooling, college and then university couldn’t make you believe in yourself enough to start something on your own, like a problem solver, a self-employed contractor, or an entrepreneur, nothing can.
Confidence in your abilities and skills empowers you to forge your own path as a self-employed individual or entrepreneur and degrees never do that in fact the kill that confidence.
Instead of waiting for opportunities, you can create them by identifying market gaps and solving problems around you without wasting time and money for a degree. Can’t you?
Don't limit yourself to the conventional norms; embrace your entrepreneurial spirit and pave the way for your own success!
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Let's shift our focus from defining leadership to understanding what it's not! True leadership isn't about seeking authority or making oneself inaccessible.
It's not about setting conditions for the betterment of people, which veers into politics rather than genuine leadership.
Consider icons like Mother Teresa, Abdul Sattar Edhi, Nelson Mandela, and other revered figures—did they seek chairperson roles before dedicating themselves to serving humanity? No.
They exemplified leadership through selflessness, humility, and unwavering dedication, without needing formal authority.
In this article, let's talk about what is, and what not leadershp; by learning from great leaders and their legacy and redefine what leadership truly means.
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/lets-talk-what-leadership-kashif-ahmed-jrayf
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