01/11/2026
Yesterday, the kids and I decided to overhaul their bedroom. We sorted through and minimized clothes, rearranged beds, moved furniture, decluttered toys, and gave the room a much-needed refresh.
We spent several hours working together, and along the way, we had some meaningful conversations. We talked about how, as Christians, we are not called to simply follow the customs of the world. Instead, the decisions we make should reflect our faith and bring glory to God. When we choose not to follow the crowd, we will inevitably stand out. People may question our choices, but those moments can become opportunities to share our faith in Jesus.
Fast forward to yesterday evening.
We deliberately chose not to participate in any Halloween activities, including trick-or-treating. Instead, we went out to dinner, sat around the table, and enjoyed some family time.
We received several double-takes and a few comments from people who seemed surprised to see children out on Halloween night. Our children were the only kids in the restaurant. Everyone else was likely out strolling their neighborhoods in costumes.
Then, just as we were preparing to leave, a woman sitting at an adjacent table flagged me down. I walked over, and she began complimenting our children. She commented on how kind, polite, and well-behaved they were. Apparently, she and her husband had been talking about their disappointment in the behavior and attitudes of "kids today." They had noticed something different about ours.
"You're doing a great job," she said with a smile.
I thanked her for noticing and appreciating the hard work that goes into raising children.
And then we headed home.
On the drive back, we had the opportunity to revisit our earlier conversation about being countercultural and standing out in a crowd.
What a beautiful reminder that being different doesn't always mean doing something extraordinary. Sometimes, it simply means making intentional choices, living out our faith, and allowing the light of Christ to shine through our everyday actions.
Our children understood the connection, and they are eager to keep shining His light in a dark world.
May we never be so concerned about fitting in that we forget Whom we are called to represent.