10/21/2026
Click, click of soccer cleats is not what you typically hear at a VFW Meeting.
As I lead the meeting, just a few minutes in:
My daughter shows up.
She doesn’t disturb the meeting,
But her soccer cleats make a distinct noise.
She looks for a device to entertain her.
She comes up to the podium,
Gets the computer (click, click, click)
As the adjutant continues to read the minutes like my daughter isn’t there.
She orders herself food and settles in the back of the room.
I am grateful she is independent.
Does her own things and still wants to hang with Mom.
More importantly she has been accepted by the VFW Post.
She is allowed to come.
Family is important to me,
And if acceptance wasn’t the case, I wouldn’t be there.
I would not volunteer my time.
So if having a family is holding you back,
Send me a DM.
Let utilize your value of family.
Connect as Veterans and show up in ways that are uniquely yours.