10/06/2026
Mullings – A Tribute to Trevor Wilson Sadler – July 30, 1996 – October 1, 2026
By Carolyn L. Wells
Todd County Standard
One of the most poignant scenes in Thornton Wilder’s Our Town is found in Act III when Emily Webb, one of the central figures of the renowned play, returns to life for a short period of time. After visiting her parents’ home on a special birthday in her past life, Emily’s emotions overcome her, and she ponders, “Oh, earth, you're too wonderful for anybody to realize you. Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it?”
That question is one that has been on the minds of many Todd Countians in recent weeks as our community has lost two young souls, Emily Sharp Kidd, 35, and Trevor Sadler, 30. Trevor, that second young soul, was a graduate of Todd County Central High School and spent many of his years of life in the Trenton community, attending Trenton Baptist Church. Trevor is survived by his parents, Chuck Sadler of Trenton and Stephanie Michelle Underhill and her husband Jason Underhill of Bowling Green; his paternal grandmother, Sylvia Sadler of Trenton; his brother, John Walton Sadler of Guthrie; and his sisters, Shelby Brooke Burrow of Brunswick, Georgia, and Jenna Belle Sadler of Cedar Hill, Tennessee.
Mercedes Herrington Belew, one who knew Trevor for many years, penned, “I considered Trevor to be a good friend of mine at school. He was such a joy to be around – always there to greet you with a warm hello and a brilliant smile. He will be missed by many.” Brooke Osborne, another who knew Trevor, added, “Trevor was the sweetest soul; he loved everyone in school. What a gift he was to this earth.” Dana Sawyers Frogue, Trevor’s first teacher at South Todd Elementary, shared, “He radiated love, tenderness, and joy. He was adorable and full of love then just like he was in recent years when he purchased strawberries from Mom.” Dr. Jon Partlow, a former preacher at West Side Church of Christ in Elkton, said it beautifully, “Trevor was a very special friend. His smile and kindness brought joy to so many, including me.”
That “bringing of joy” to others was a trademark of Trevor. Aerial Marie, another friend of Trevor, commented about him, “You were such a kind and loving person. I loved going to the Special Olympics and seeing you there and walking into school and seeing you. Your hugs were the best; I could honestly never have a bad day around you.” His maternal aunt, Amanda Boisseau of Guthrie, shared another heartfelt portrayal of Trevor, describing him as one who “had the kindest of souls” and one who “always had a big smile on his face,” loving everyone in his path. Julie Hamlet, a teacher at Todd County Middle School, also added, “My favorite memories of him are with arms outstretched and giving me a hug every Sunday morning! I sure am going to miss that hug and that smile.” Lindsey Greenfield Arvin, another who knew Trevor, summed up his personality sharing, “Trevor was an amazing person inside and out! He truly was the epitome of Christ on earth.”
A former math teacher at TCCHS, Kathy Dobbs, formerly of Trenton, reminded us so powerfully, “The older I become the more real it gets. Death is not a respecter of persons, and we need to live our lives like today is our last. Would God be proud of the day we lived? People like Trevor and Emily were shining lights in life, and if their deaths could light a fire for Jesus in even one person, it would be glorious indeed. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child, but I can imagine the wonderful feeling of knowing they are in Jesus’ arms.” Another who knew Trevor, Lauren Chester of Trenton, posted another poignant reminder in reference to the two deceased young ones, “May their lives remind us to love a little harder, hug a little longer, say ‘love you’ while we still can, and, most importantly, make sure our hearts are ready for eternity.”
Another friend of Trevor, Lee B. Miller of Trenton, also provided even more insight into the heart of young Trevor, noting for many years Trevor had been the Miller family’s neighbor. Lee shared, “Often we have seen him holding up a heart with his hands when we were coming or going. Jesus said the greatest commandments are to love God and to love your neighbor. Trevor loved his Lord, and he was faithful to be at church anytime he was home. He was always on the lookout to greet anyone.” Miller also emphasized Trevor’s neighbors were everywhere since everyone he met became one of his neighbors whom he loved. He also added, “As a multitude can attest, he was always ready with a handshake, a hug, and twinkle in his eye.”
The playwright Thornton Wilder would assuredly concur Trevor Sadler’s short life on earth becomes a reminder to us of the fragility of life and our need to savor every moment we can. The 30 years Trevor Sadler shared with those a part of his world were 30 years filled with love, hugs, laughter, friendship, and caring for others. It would definitely behoove all of us to emulate Trevor in all we tackle daily. To honor Trevor’s life, his family has requested memorial donations be made to support the special needs classroom at Todd County Central High School. Those donations can be sent to Todd Central FMD, 806 South Main Street, Elkton, KY 42220 in Trevor’s memory.