10/17/2026
Honeytraps and Bait and Switches: The Hidden Reality of S*x Trafficking - Written by a S*x Trafficking Survivor
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For those who haven’t researched s*x trafficking, the image most commonly conjured is a snatch-and-grab scenario in which a victim is targeted on the street or in parking lots, usually alone or distracted, shoved into a van, and taken to a second location. While this is a realistic situation that certainly happens, other more covert and lesser-known tactics are widespread. Victims are lured or coerced into curated traps. They are sold a dream and delivered a nightmare. They are systematically disadvantaged to keep them ensnared, particularly financially, but also by tracking and installing handlers into their lives as friends, partners, bosses, etc., to monitor their activities and isolate them from support systems. In these instances, victims may not even be aware that they’re being trafficked, as the illusion of freedom is maintained by the premise that they can leave at any time.
Existing vulnerabilities such as poverty, high lifestyle aspirations, and drug addiction are exploited, with the trafficker stepping in to bankroll the lifestyle, provide housing or a job, or supply drugs—all for a price. Women are disproportionately affected by s*x trafficking, representing an overwhelming rate of 94% of all identified victims in the U.S., attributed to systemic inequalities, housing instability, and marginalization. Knowing the terrain of s*x trafficking techniques is the first step in protecting yourself from becoming a victim. Here are a few of many such examples:
Drug-addicted populations may be targeted for s*x trafficking. A victim who’s mired in drug addiction or becomes hooked by the trafficker, possibly her dealer, becomes desperate for a constant supply. The trafficker provides either drugs or drug money contingent on her willingly submitting to being prostituted—and the fix only comes when the job is complete.
Elsewhere, a woman becomes involved with a man who immediately charms her and tells her she’s special and he’s different from everybody else. He fast-tracks the relationship and, within weeks, invites her to move in, starts paying her bills, and portrays the image of the perfect man. He projects absolute respect for her and earns her trust easily. This is the “nice guy” act. He tells her whatever she wants to hear. He pretends to share her interests. Once she’s on the hook and is financially dependent on him, he starts isolating her from her family and friends, telling her, “They don’t understand you like I do,” or that they can’t be trusted, or just that he’d rather be alone with her, and commands all of her time and attention. This is the grooming phase. Once he’s become her entire world, he flips. He starts insisting that she owes him for providing for her. He may blackmail her, threatening to damage her reputation by revealing intimate photos or information she confided in him. He becomes her pimp and demands that she have s*x with other men for money, which all goes to him.
In another such case where the nice-guy act is pulled, she would be drugged by night and r***d by other men for money and may never know this had happened. When somebody is being drugged, they often notice health issues caused by withdrawal, as the victim becomes addicted to the drug, but don’t know to attribute it to the drug. In withdrawal from GHB, victims may be prone to blackout rages, disorientation, hallucinations, anxiety, and psychosis, leading them to misinterpret their symptoms. Doctors may not consider the possibility that their patient is being drugged. The trafficker plays the perfect gentleman and the concerned partner until the discard phase, when the rug is pulled: the situation gets too hot, as in he suspects his victim or law enforcement may become aware, or the target becomes unmanageable, and she’s dumped in a vulnerable state and typically left with nothing, as he controlled the finances.
Or, young women are offered modeling contracts and introduced to wealthy men who, unbeknownst to the victim, are targeting them for s*x. The women are enticed into the men’s circle via expensive gifts, luxury travel, access to exclusive events and dinners, and may be unaware that an unspoken expectation of s*x is attached to all of it. If she refuses, she could be threatened with humiliation, professional consequences, or exposure of private information.
Social media and dating sites are used by traffickers to gather information about and contact targets. In one typical tactic, a woman may provide private photos to somebody she meets online, which are later used to blackmail the victim into having s*x with the blackmailer or their clients, or into providing more photos, which may be sold. The latter is considered s*xual exploitation, but whether a particular case also constitutes trafficking depends on the circumstances. Refusing to comply would result in the photos being shared with the victim’s family, partner, employer, school, or online for humiliation or sale.
A homeless person or teen runaway may be offered shelter by a seemingly well-meaning charitable individual. The arrangement may be easygoing at first as the victim acclimates and vulnerabilities are identified, but later s*x is demanded. This type of arrangement can also be exploited for labor trafficking.
Cults can provide an environment for s*x trafficking. Imagine a child born into a high control religious group who’s raised to believe the outside world is volatile and unsafe and the cult is the only safe haven. The reality is far more sinister—children being sold or used by the cult as s*x slaves and later spouses who must produce heirs and provide labor. Their entire lives, they’re owned by the cult and don’t know it, and may not understand that the abuse is criminal or even wrong. Isolation is common throughout all of these depictions for a reason—fewer witnesses and fewer outside perspectives to alert the victim to their abuse. Calculated flattery, where the target is told they’re special or chosen, is a classic recruitment tactic for cults, traffickers, and abusers.
The scenario of a kidnapped victim being imprisoned, where violence is used and IDs are controlled by the trafficker, and where location and communications are monitored, is entirely realistic, and elements of those control measures could be used in any of the above depictions.
Share this post—you never know who may need it—and comment below with your thoughts and other ways s*x traffickers recruit unsuspecting victims. In the next article of this series, we’ll break down some of the red flags that you’re being targeted for trafficking.
If you are a victim of s*x trafficking and would like to tell your story, email NYSPA with the subject line: Survivor’s Story.
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