10/28/2026
A lot of anxiety lives in the overlap between what we're worried about and what we actually have control over. Spoiler: it's usually a much smaller overlap than it feels like in the moment.
In your control: how you respond, the boundaries you set, how you spend your energy, whether you reach out for support.
Out of your control: other people's choices, their reactions, their timelines, the outcome, most of the future.
This isn't about pretending you don't care. It's about noticing where you're spending energy trying to control things that were never yours to control in the first place, and redirecting that energy toward what actually is.
Try it yourself: draw the circle. Sort your worry list, and see what's actually left.
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