10/26/2026
Domestic violence is not always visible. Sometimes the warning signs are seen by friends, family, coworkers, or professionals long before tragedy occurs.
Kathleen was only 22 years old and 11 weeks pregnant with a baby girl when her life was taken.
Before her death, Kathleen completed a domestic violence screening through the military system. Her score was considered high risk. Friends had noticed bruises and signs of abuse. Concerned for her safety, they spoke up.
After leaving the marriage, Kathleen temporarily returned to her mother's ranch. Her husband contacted her and said he wanted to attend couples counseling. Kathleen agreed. During the counseling session, Kathleen disclosed concerns about his behavior and temper. According to testimony later presented in court, the counselor challenged him about his reactions, and he became angry and walked out before eventually returning.
After the session, Kathleen sought medical care for severe dehydration caused by morning sickness. Those who saw her described her as standing close to her husband, something many survivors do when trying to stay safe and avoid conflict.
On the drive back, an argument began. Kathleen reminded him to slow down because of the baby she was carrying. The disagreement continued, and she eventually got out of the vehicle on a rural road near her family's ranch.
Wanting safety, Kathleen began walking toward a neighbor's home nearly a mile away for help.
Instead of leaving, he waited.
As Kathleen neared the neighbor's property, he drove his vehicle toward her and struck her. The impact threw her onto the neighbor's lawn. An 11-year-old girl witnessed the tragedy from her bedroom window. Neighbors rushed to help and attempted lifesaving measures, but Kathleen and her unborn daughter could not be saved.
Today, we remember Kathleen not as a victim, but as a daughter, a friend, a young woman with dreams, and a mother who was excited about her baby girl.
Her story reminds us why we must listen when someone expresses concern, why we must believe survivors, and why our community must continue working together to prevent domestic violence.
For every Kathleen whose story ended too soon, there are others living in silence today. Let them know they are not alone. Help is available. Hope is real.
We remember Kathleen. We remember her daughter Annmarie Bree, name that had already been chosen by Kathleen.
We speak their names so they are never forgotten. 💜
As Domestic Violence Awareness Month comes to a close, we ask our community to do two things:
💜 Donate to support local services that provide safety, advocacy, emergency assistance, and hope to survivors and their families.
https://secure.givelively.org/donate/elmore-county-domestic-violence-council/elmore-county-domestic-violence-council
💜 Share Kathleen's story. Awareness saves lives. By sharing this post, you may help someone recognize the warning signs of abuse, start a difficult conversation, or reach out for help.
Let them know they are not alone. Let them know there are people who care and resources available to help.