10/01/2026
I join with the beautifully written and heartfelt words from so many mourning the passing of Phil Ponder. I’ve loved reading the shared personal experiences with Phil and they speak to how deeply he meant to so many. I’m so thankful for how he truly enriched my life.
Phil was always one of the first to recognize and support young leaders rising up to serve their communities. “Service to others before self” I remember hearing from Phil as a Class of 2013 member of L'Evate when he spoke to us from the lectern in the TN State House Chambers. The message and the way he delivered it has always stuck with me.
A short story I remember that makes me smile… I was fired up at my campaign kickoff twelve years ago to run for District 15 Council Member in the 2015 election. I’m thankful to Ryman for hosting it in Studio A behind the Grand Ole Opry. Maybe I was too fired up. I spoke way too long, maybe 30-40 minutes. Phil came up to me a few days later (we would always joke that it was the sixth or whatever time that we’d seen each other that week…) and congratulated me on a great kickoff, and then he looked at me straight with a smile and said, “don’t ever speak for that long again, trust me”. Phil knew how to teach a lesson with love. But he was absolutely right. Every time I spoke at an event after that ever since, he’d come pat me on the shoulder and say, “Good job, wasn’t too long.” We’d always laugh. Among all the many ways he deeply inspired and supported me in my support of community, the arts, historic preservation, and being an effective Council Member, I can also say with a smile and a laugh that he made me a better public speaker.
After I left office in 2023, my area Council Members, Bradford, Evans, Gregg, and Huffman, gave me this signed print of Two Rivers Mansion. It’s a beautiful gift I prominently display at home and his note means the world.
He guided me in service to the community up until just recently. Last year as I became President of Friends of Two Rivers of Two Rivers, as we were growing, we created an Advisory Council to provide guidance. Phil wholeheartedly said yes to serving on it and was just so giving and brilliant with his engagement.
I will sorely miss Phil. He was an amazing friend and will inspire me for the rest of my life.