10/21/2026
LGBTQIA+ History month Spotlight: Felicia “Flames” Elizondo
written by LGBTQIA+ Commissioner Fabricio Perez
"Earlier this year, I had the privilege of attending a reenactment of the 1966 Compton’s Cafeteria Riot in San Francisco’s Tenderloin. A powerful reminder that the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights started years before Stonewall. This year marks the 60th anniversary of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot, and the San Mateo County LGBTQIA+ Commission would like to highlight and share with you the stories of individuals who faced prejudice, poverty, and police violence, yet are remembered and honored for their survival and fierce resistance.
The Compton’s Cafeteria Riot was a q***r and transgender-led uprising in response to years of police harassment and discrimination. In it, trans and gender nonconforming patrons fought back when police attempted to arrest a transgender patron simply for being who she was.
Little was recorded about the event, and many of the people involved were never named. No newspaper reported the riot, and many of the women who lived through it lost their lives to the AIDS epidemic before anyone could save their stories. Nonetheless, the people who kept that memory alive spent their lives fighting for their communities, and one of them was Felicia “Flames” Elizondo.
Felicia was born in Texas in 1946 and, at the age of 14, she moved to San Jose with her family. By 16, she had found refuge at Compton’s Cafeteria, one of the few places trans women could gather as they were not allowed or welcomed in nearby gay bars. Felicia was a Vietnam veteran and tested HIV-positive in 1987. Later on, she turned her survival into years of service for her community.
She performed drag shows to raise money for HIV/AIDS organizations, helped organize the San Francisco Trans March, and lived a life of advocacy for transgender rights. And in 2015, San Francisco Pride named her its lifetime achievement grand marshal.
In 2021, Felicia passed away. She lived by a simple promise, to “hold the torch” for everyone who fought at Compton’s so they would not be forgotten. And now it is our turn to remember them, honor their fight, and carry their torch."