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Research-based discussion of resilience and coping during family transitions

How Parents Can Find Their Strength and Resilience Trusting in your wisdom, your community, and your bond with your children can help parents in challenging circumstances.

Practical ways for parents to manage thier emotions

Four Ways for Parents to Manage Their Emotions Parenting isn't just about navigating your children's emotional ups and downs. We also need to work with our own big feelings.

Children Likely Better Adjusted in Joint Custody
Summary of psychological research examining child adjustment across custody arrangements

https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2002/03/custody?

Children likely to be better adjusted in joint vs sole custody arrangements Children in joint custody arrangements had less behavior and emotional problems, higher self-esteem, better family relations and school performance.

Divorce is hard — not just legally, but emotionally.

Stress, anxiety, and big life changes can make everything feel overwhelming, especially when children are involved.

This article explains some of the mental health impact people go through during separation.

If you’re navigating this right now, you’re not alone — and having the right support in place can make a big difference.

How Divorce Affects Your Mental Health and How to Cope Your mental health matters during your divorce. Simple self-care steps, such as maintaining a regular sleep schedule, engaging in gentle exercise, and limiting well-meaning but unhelpful advice from friends, can make a huge difference in how you cope day-to-day.

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BIFF IS A GAME CHANGER FOR COMMUNICATING WITH PEOPLE WITH HIGH CONFLICT PERSONALITIES

BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns Download the free Kindle app and start reading Kindle books instantly on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required.

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Raising Resilient Kids Through Co-Parenting In this live presentation and Q&A session, Clinical Psychologist, Dr. JoAnne Pedro-Carroll, will explore parenting strategies that help children build long-t...

For Non-Custodial Parents Who Feel Unseen or Unheard

If you're a non-custodial parent and you feel like you're being left out, dismissed, or treated unfairly, you're not alone. Many parents quietly carry this frustration—especially when they’re trying to stay connected with their child and keep getting shut out.

Here’s what you should know:

You matter. Your role as a parent doesn't end because of a court order or a schedule. Children benefit deeply from having consistent, loving involvement from both parents—when it’s safe and appropriate.

If you're missing visits you can ask your attorney about, keeping records, and tracking things like canceled time, denied communication, or changes made without agreement. It’s important to stay organized and clear.

Tone matters. It’s frustrating, yes—but how you respond (especially in writing) can impact how you’re perceived. Keep your language calm, respectful, and child-focused.

Supervised visitation doesn’t define you. If your visits are currently supervised, it doesn’t mean you’re not a good parent. Show up, stay consistent, and use the time to strengthen your bond with your child.

If the order no longer works, talk to an attorney about your options and ask questions. They can help you understand whether and how to file a request with the court.

And most importantly—you don’t have to do this alone.

If you need support or a safe space to spend time with your child, we’re here to help.

Call All Smiles at 619-777-8617

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I Was Just Served with a Temporary Restraining Order—What Do I Do Now? Learn what to do if you've been served with a temporary restraining order in this informative blog post. Get expert advice and guidance on navigating this challenging situation.

Sharing this resource from Camp HOPE America who leads a year-round camping and mentoring program in the country for youth exposed to domestic violence and trauma.