Center for Domestic Peace

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫’𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲, 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐝.

Healthy, respectful manhood means valuing and respecting women, girls, and LGBTQ+, trans, and nonbinary people — and just as importantly, valuing and respecting oneself by striving to live authentically.

It looks like:
• Choosing empathy over control
• Expressing emotions instead of suppressing them
• Showing up with accountability, care, and integrity
• Modeling respect, equity, and love for the next generation

Too often, society teaches men to live inside the “Man Box” — to be tough, dominant, emotionless, and in control at all times. These expectations harm everyone. They disconnect men from themselves and contribute to violence and inequality. But there is another way.

When fathers and male-identified leaders step outside of the Man Box, they create safer homes, healthier relationships, and more equitable communities. They model what it truly means to be strong — grounded in respect, compassion, and authenticity.

Today, we honor the fathers, caregivers, and men who are doing that work every day. And we invite all men to join in.

A Call to Men is a powerful resource supporting men and boys in redefining manhood and building a culture rooted in respect and equity. Learn more here: https://www.acalltomen.org

𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝.
Juneteenth marks the day in 1865 when enslaved Black people in Texas finally received word of their freedom—more than two years after the Emancipation Proclamation. It is both a celebration of Black freedom and resilience and a reminder that the work of liberation continues.

At Center for Domestic Peace, we recognize that freedom from oppression and freedom from abuse are deeply connected. Black survivors of domestic violence navigate not only personal harm, but also systemic racism, historic distrust of institutions, and deep inequities in access to support.

We remain committed to providing accessible, culturally responsive services that center dignity, autonomy, and choice—especially for those whose needs have historically gone unmet.

If you or someone you know is seeking support, our confidential 24/7 line is here: 415-924-6616.

This powerful film shares the stories of survivors who made the courageous decision to leave violence behind in search of safety for themselves and their children, only to face the harsh realities of housing instability and systemic barriers. It offers an honest look at what survivors truly endure, the resilience it takes to rebuild, and the life-changing impact of supportive services and safe housing.

Created through the 𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐎𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐌𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 (𝐇𝐎𝐌𝐄) 𝐂𝐨𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭, this project highlights the critical connection between domestic violence and homelessness — and the urgent need for communities to create pathways to safety, stability, and healing for every survivor.

“Why don’t they just leave?” This question oversimplifies the complex realities faced by survivors of domestic violence. Survivors may stay because of fear, financial dependence, concern for their children, emotional attachment, lack of support, cultural pressures, or the reality that leaving can actually increase the risk of violence. The film demonstrates that leaving an abusive relationship is not a simple decision, but a difficult and often dangerous process that can lead to significant hardship and instability.

Leaving an abusive home should never mean becoming homeless — yet for so many survivors, safety comes at an unimaginable cost. At C4DP, we witness these realities every day, and we remain committed to ensuring survivors never have to choose between abuse and homelessness.

Pease watch the film:

Housing Opportunities Mean Everything: Domestic Violence, Housing, and the Cost of Inaction This film shares the stories of survivors who became homeless after...

We partner with providers around the Bay to offer customized, trauma‑informed presentations that strengthen responses to domestic violence. Supporting survivors means meeting people where they are with understanding, care, and collaboration.

Thank you to the 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐚'𝐬 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐦 for inviting us to present and for commiting to increasing awareness, building capacity, and encouraging collaboration to help care for people impacted by relationship violence.

To learn more about our trainings, visit: https://centerfordomesticpeace.org/get-involved/trainings-and-workshops/

🤝 Clinical Supervisor – Independent Contractor Opportunity

Center for Domestic Peace (C4DP) is seeking a licensed Clinical Supervisor to support trauma-informed behavioral health services for survivors of domestic violence and their children.

This part-time independent contractor role will provide clinical supervision, consultation, and quality support to therapists, associate clinicians, and graduate-level interns within C4DP’s Children, Youth & Community Prevention Division and Healing Forward program.

We are looking for a clinician who brings strong experience in supervision along with a deep commitment to survivor-centered, culturally responsive care. The ideal candidate will have expertise in trauma-informed practices and experience working with individuals and families impacted by domestic violence.

This is an opportunity to contribute to meaningful, mission-driven work while supporting the growth and development of a dedicated clinical team.

To learn more, please download the full opportunity description, which includes details on the scope of work, qualifications, schedule, compensation, and application process.

https://centerfordomesticpeace.org/about/careers/

Careers – Center For Domestic Peace Careers at Center for Domestic Peace Center for Domestic Peace is an equal opportunity employer, committed to the principles of non-discrimination and equal opportunity in employment and in the delivery of services. CAREERS Commitment to an Inclusive and Discrimination-Free Workplace C4DP commits to...

𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐞, 𝐧𝐞𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭, 𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.

Elder abuse is a form of domestic violence, and older survivors deserve the same access to safety, dignity, and support as anyone else.

At Center for Domestic Peace, we believe that age should never be a barrier to getting help. Our services are available to survivors of all ages, and we are committed to making sure older adults in Marin County know that support is here.

If you or someone you love is looking for support, our 24/7 line is available at 415-924-6616.

🌿 Honoring Faye D’Opal

Today we honor the remarkable legacy of former Board President Faye D’Opal, whose life was defined by service, leadership, and an unwavering commitment to justice.

Faye embodied a lifelong commitment to social justice, peace, and community. Deeply compassionate, steadfast, and action oriented, Faye brought together her legal expertise and her extensive community experience in the United States and Central and South America in service of survivors of violence and impoverished and marginalized communities.

In the early 1990s, when the organization was known as Marin Abused Women’s Services, Faye joined the board of what is now Center for Domestic Peace (C4DP). She served two terms as board chair, helping to guide the organization through a critical period of growth and institutional strengthening. During her tenure, she played a key role in developing a comprehensive governance charter—one that remains in use today and has served as a model for other nonprofit organizations.

One of Faye’s most enduring contributions was her leadership in helping secure a new site for the C4DP’s emergency, confidential shelter for survivors of domestic violence in 1990. C4DP had long outgrown its shelter facility which lacked adequate beds and play space for the children. It was C4DP’s vision to re-locate to a peaceful, secluded, and enclosed space with a large area for children to play-at-large.

👉 Read More About Faye: https://centerfordomesticpeace.org/honoring-faye-dopal/

We remember her with deep gratitude and extend our heartfelt condolences to those who knew and loved her.

Here is a link to her celebration of life on Saturday June 20th: https://celebratefdo.rsvpify.com/

Domestic violence affects people of all genders and orientations. In LGBTQIA+ relationships, emotional abuse can be harder to recognize due to stigma, myths, and the very real need for connection within marginalized communities.

People who use harmful behaviors—like isolation—may believe their actions are justified. Still, no circumstance makes intimate partner abuse acceptable.

Survivors deserve support, safety, and the space to navigate trauma, mental health, substance use, and anger without harm—and no one has to face these challenges alone. If you’re feeling trapped by the person you love, call 415-924-6616 to speak with a compassionate advocate.

This is a hard truth to sit with: While homicide rates are going down, people are still being killed by those who claim to love them.

Domestic violence doesn’t just “happen.” It builds—through patterns of control, fear, and isolation. And too often, it ends in tragedy that could have been prevented.

Behind every headline is a life lost, a family shattered, a community asking what could have been done differently.
At Center for Domestic Peace, we believe these deaths are not inevitable. When we listen, intervene, and support survivors early, we can change the outcome.

Please take a moment to read this and remember why this work matters. ⬇️

https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2026/06/06/homicide-rate-is-falling-domestic-killings-are-not/

Three fathers killed their families this week as domestic violence deaths remain high The homicide rate is falling, but domestic killings are not. For those who track this kind of violence, the deaths are both predictable and preventable.

Next week, on June 15, we observe 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐄𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲.

This year's theme, from the 𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐋𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞, 𝐢𝐬: 𝐄𝐧𝐝 𝐀𝐠𝐞𝐢𝐬𝐦 | 𝐄𝐧𝐝 𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐞.

Ageism is the devaluing and dismissing of people because of their age and it creates conditions where older adults' experiences of abuse are more likely to be minimized, overlooked, or go unsupported. Elder abuse can take many forms, and older survivors may face additional barriers to finding care that truly sees and believes them.

Older survivors deserve the same access to safety, support, and dignity as anyone else. C4DP serves survivors of all ages- we are here for you when you are ready. 📞 24/7 Hotline: 415-924-6616