09/04/2026
Gloria Steinem was an activist, a journalist, and a Girl Scout.
Steinem wrote about her experiences with Girl Scouting in a letter to author Shana Corey while she was writing her book, “Here Come the Girl Scouts: The All True Story of Juliette “Daisy” Gordon Low and Her Great Adventure.”
We are honored to share her words with you now:
“When I started the seventh grade, my mother and I were living on our own in East Toledo. Because she was having a hard time with health problems and depression, I was often her caretaker. Home was not such a cheerful place.
That made it all the more important that in my public junior high school, Miss Bruss, the art and gym teacher, was a reliable source of stability and kindness. She was also a Girl Scout leader. I'd gone to a Girl Scout camp the summer after the fifth grade, so this was familiar and I went to meetings after school.
Soon, I was also going to weekend evenings where we learned to build a fire, cook hotdogs, roast marshmallows sing songs, and even dance. I earned badges to sew on my sleeve, then so many I needed a sash. Being a Girl Scout became my one source of community and consistency during a crucial two years when I very much needed both.
Starting high school meant going to a huge and grown-up building where the very idea of Girl Scout meetings seemed childish. I abandoned the uniform that my mother bought for me, even though she couldn't afford it, and I stopped going to meetings.
I knew I was betraying something important, but this was the last stop before marriage and babies for the girls and factory jobs for the boys.
It was the real world where girls and women didn't matter that much.
Many, many years passed. I was sitting at my desk at Ms. Magazine, opening my mail when a photo fell out of a handwritten note. It showed two very old ladies, smiling, sitting with their arms around each other's shoulders. They were Miss Bruss and her partner, my long ago math teacher, both long retired.
As the note explained, they always had been lovers and life partners, and they were thanking me for being part of a movement that meant they didn't have to pretend anymore.
I was sad for all those years they had to be "maiden ladies" instead of a devoted couple. I still wished I hadn't betrayed my own rescue by giving in to the world of high school. But I was glad to be part of a feminist movement that was making it okay to be whoever we truly are.
We all have a place at the campfire. It was the Girl Scouts who taught me that first.”
- Gloria Steinem, May 20, 2011.