10/30/2026
Developed just prior to the turn of the century, Create a Great Funeral Day is barely a decade old. Registered as an official holiday by Stephanie West Allen as a way of attempting to relieve the pressure of having to decide what a loved one would want for their final send off, this day got its start in 1999.
was founded with the hopes of getting loved ones to sit down together and talk about what they would want at their funeral while they are still young and healthy enough to have the conversation. This type of forward thinking helps loved ones know what the plan is when the time comes and keeps them from having to juggle their grief with trying to plan a funeral and guess what they would have wanted.
While life is a beautiful thing, it also inevitably comes to an end. Barring the discovery of the fountain of youth very soon, everyone is going to die at some point. And when that happens, it’s very good if the family members and loved ones of the deceased can be prepared by knowing and even having a list of how to proceed.
And that’s what Create a Great Funeral Day is all about … sharing preferences and opening up a healthy conversation about death. Engaging in heartfelt conversations about the final journey ensures wishes are honored, easing the burden on loved ones during difficult times.
One of the most important things to do on Create a Great Funeral Day is to open up the lines of communication with loved ones. Whether aging parents, a spouse, aunts and uncles, or even siblings, it’s important to remember that EVERYONE dies at some point. So, get the conversation rolling with some questions regarding preferences – and write them down to make it easier to save them for later.
Try discussing some of these topics:
• How does the person feel about organ donation?
• Which is preferred, burial or cremation? Maybe a Green funeral?
• Would flowers be welcome or would it be better to make a donation to a charity?
• What would they like their obituary to say?