10/21/2026
💜 TC TUESDAY | EPISODE 119
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH 💜
☎️ “911, WHERE IS YOUR EMERGENCY?”
Sometimes, the person on the other end of the phone is whispering.
Sometimes, they’re crying.
And sometimes, they hang up before they can say a single word.
💜 DOMESTIC VIOLENCE DOESN’T ALWAYS LEAVE BRUISES.
Domestic violence isn’t always physical. It can involve:
💜 Threats, intimidation, and fear
💜 Controlling who someone sees or speaks to
💜 Monitoring phones, messages, or locations
💜 Controlling money or preventing someone from working
💜 Emotional manipulation, humiliation, and isolation
💜 Physical violence, sexual violence, or threats of harm
🚨 WHY DON’T THEY JUST LEAVE?
It’s a question people ask far too often.
The reality? Leaving an abusive relationship can be one of the most dangerous times for a victim.
Fear, financial dependence, children, pets, threats, and manipulation can make escaping incredibly difficult.
The better question is: “How can we help them get safe?”
🎧 FROM BEHIND THE HEADSET
As 911 telecommunicators, we know domestic violence calls can change in seconds.
We may hear screaming, crying, silence, or someone trying desperately to sound normal.
Our job is to listen, gather critical information, assess immediate danger, and get responders headed in the right direction.
We may ask:
📍 Where are you?
🚨 Is the person hurting you still there?
Are there weapons involved?
Is anyone injured?
Are there children present?
These questions aren’t asked to judge you. They’re asked to help keep you and responding officers safe.
💜 IF YOU NEED HELP, PLEASE KNOW THIS:
You do not have to wait until someone physically hurts you to ask for help.
You do not have to have visible injuries to be taken seriously.
And you do not have to figure everything out alone.
☎️ If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
💜 National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
💜 TO THE PERSON WHO IS AFRAID TO MAKE THAT CALL:
Your safety matters.
Your voice matters.
And when you reach out for help, there are people ready to listen.