10/20/2026
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
When most people imagine Domestic Violence, we often invoke images of physical and verbal abuse, but violence and control can take many shapes.
Financial abuse is less understood, but still a powerful tool of control, trapping victims and survivors in abusive relationships. Abusers keep their victims isolated and dependent on them by controlling a persons ability to get, use, and keep independent financial resoursec. This can inclue preventing somone from working or keeping their own bank account.
Below are some examples of how abusers leverage financial insecurity to keep control over their targets:
>>Providing an allowance and closely monitoring how you spend it, including demanding receipts for purchases.
>>Depositing your paycheck into an account you can’t access.
>>Preventing you from viewing or accessing bank accounts.
>>Stopping you from working, limiting the hours that you can work, getting you fired, or forcing you to work certain types of jobs.
>>Maxing out your credit cards without permission, not paying credit card bills, or otherwise harming your credit score.
>>Stealing money from you, your family, or your friends.
>>Withdrawing money from children’s savings accounts without your permission.
>>Living in your home but refusing to work or contribute to the household.
>>Forcing you to provide them with your tax returns or confiscating joint tax returns.
>>Refusing to provide money for necessary or shared expenses like food, clothing, transportation, medical care, or medicine.
If you or someone you know may be experiencing this type of abuse, please don't hesitate to call us. 920-743-8785
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