10/27/2026
Our children are watching.
We can tell our children to put their phones away at dinner. But if we're checking our own notifications under the table, they're receiving another message.
Children learn about technology not only from the rules we set, but from watching how we use it ourselves.
This doesn't mean we need to be perfect. Instead, try making a few small, visible changes:
• Put your phone away during a meal.
• Create phone-free moments around bedtime.
• Tell your child why:
"I'm putting my phone away so I can focus on you."
And if you get distracted?
Repair.
"I got pulled into my phone. I'm putting it away now."
These small moments show children that technology is something we can choose to use intentionally, and not something that has to take our attention every time it calls.
You can even make it a family challenge. When parents take part too, healthy technology habits become a family value, rather than just another rule for the kids.
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Want to explore your family's relationship with technology? We are here to help.